Men vs. Women

Why do men only use women to get what they want? How come when we want something in return, it is just unacceptable? Women need to start standing up for themselves when it comes to these ungrateful bastards. Men do not care about women, they only care about themselves. We stand up for them because we see and hear what they want us to believe is the true side of them. If they say they are not that kind of guy to do so-and-so, that is the biggest lie that could come out of a man’s mouth because odds are they are who they say they are not. Men are nothing but manipulative lying animals. If women have not seen this side in a man, then consider yourself lucky. One thing women cannot deny is that their man is “perfect” or they know of a “perfect” man. All guys have their flaws, not one of them is perfect. Sorry ladies, that perfect guy we all dream about being with is only in our fantasies or is a fake character on television or in a movie…they do not exist. Actually, let’s get to the real reason I am writing this blog...
I am a frustrated 18-year old girl who has been through it all when it comes to guys. Let’s see here…my dad is a narcissistic man who uses my mom and I only when he is in need for something and of course, if we do not live up to his expectations or drop everything for him, who gets yelled at? My mom and I. He has no control over us and that is what kills him the most. Sorry dad, but you are a big boy…do it yourself. Guys that were called my boyfriends, you are no longer worthy enough to be known as my ex. All my exes have, indeed, cheated on me and used me for sex. I do believe that is all men do nowadays. Two of my exes, Chandler and Scotty (Andrew) still contact me but it is only when they want something like a picture or sex. I mean, come on, Scotty you have a girlfriend. What gets me is that I am a pregnant girl who has been through the worse but nothing seems to phase them. It is like they have no standards, they are past the desperate point. In fact, I would like to say that if you are a guy and you are so desperate that you basically have no morals or standards when it comes to getting laid…then go buy yourself a blow-up doll from an adult novelty store to satisfy your needs. The one ex that definitely does not deserve to be known as my ex is a certain guy who not only used me for sex but also got me pregnant. This guy was abusive to be. He never laid a hand on me but he would always threaten me and was always verbally abusive. The good thing was I did take him to court but it took me about two long months to realize how dumb I was for being with him. One day, June 14^th 2011, he tried to run me off the mountain while I was pregnant with his kid. We were broken up at the time but that did not seem to matter because he had this idea that I was his property. In my belief, if you are single then you can talk to whomever you want. He did not like me talking to family, friends, guys, of course…anyone who was not a part of his family, I could not talk to. I was miserable but the great thing about it is, I am away from him because I finally decided to stand up against him after that day and I went to court and got myself a protection order. Best thing I ever did. All that worries me now is my baby’s safety.
Men just have no standards or boundaries when it comes to women. They have no respect for us. In the workforce, at home, school…men think they are better, no matter what. Men think they are stronger, wiser, and more superior but actually they are not. Sorry, guys. Women may be on-going talkers, sometimes whiners, and even bitchy but that is who we are and if we have to deal with your load of crap every single day then you can do the same. In fact, men are not stronger than women…yeah; they may be able to lift more weight than us but are they physically and emotionally stronger? That’s the strength that matters. To men out there, can you carry a living human inside your body for 9 months at a time? How about push that 9 pound baby out of a 10 cm hole? No, I didn’t think so. Ok, can a guy get hurt, put down, and walk around like nothing is wrong at the same time? Nope. Men do not realize what women go through. So quit complaining that we women are nothing but whiners, control freaks, non-stop talkers, or my personal favorite…bitches. While you men are nothing but self-centered sex freaks that cheat on women and only care about your jobs while we lovely women are taking care of your children, you guys are all assholes. We, women may have our flaws but you men have twice as many. While we clean, most of you sit on the couch with your hands down your pants. When we ask you to do one tiny little task, you all complain because you are too lazy to get off your asses because you all had a long, hard day at work. Come on, really? Women clean, cook, take care of the kids, run errands, and everything else while the men get to go away to work for half the day. Oh you men just have it so hard...suck it up! When it comes to taking care of the children, you all either whine or “supposedly have to run out and do an errand”. To the married men out there, I am pretty sure those “late night hours at work” are not spent at work unless your work contains late night hours fooling around with your co-worker. You are not fooling anyone, except your clueless wives maybe. Men walk around acting like they own the place and they are the ones who run this world. Last time I checked women are the ones who brought you into this world and we can take you right out of it. The saying “You can’t live with them and you can’t live without them”, is an understatement. I know plenty of women who can live without them and I am one of them.

P.S. To the men that do not treat women like garbage...thank you, do not change because women need good guys out there to treat them the way they should be treated.